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It’s normal to see a lady go on lavish vacations in exquisite locations with no single dime in the pocket. (Or purse). For am man to be able to afford the same trip he may need to work his socks off for some months (or years, as the case may be). And sometimes he may need to collaborate with some friends in order to chest the expenses.  But here we have a female without a job, a skill or source of income of any sort making these trips multiple times. Simple because she has a pretty face. This example explains the basic concept of the infamous pretty privilege; which I never knew was a thing until recently. Now, don’t get me wrong. There is nothing wrong in a person receiving preferential treatment or advantages based on their physical looks. I mean I wouldn’t mind getting stuff for free simply because I have a big head. My only problem is with those sisters who make it a full time job. If we’re being honest to ourselves, then we’ll all agree that being physically attractive is alwa...

Being an article by Lesley Chimezie Nwankwo . Overtime we have had our minds conditioned to believe that we are all supposed to be leaders. We attend “Leadership Summits” and Trainings so often, where we are taught how to be leaders. We are taught characteristics that make people leaders and made to believe that only people who become leaders get ahead in life. As a result, we tend to look down on certain people whom we believe do not exhibit these characteristics. However, one truth we all must embrace sooner rather than later is that WE CANNOT ALL BE LEADERS. But it does not mean that we cannot make meaningful impact or indeed be successful. We can all be committed followers, doggedly sold out on the dreams and willing to do what it takes to actualise the visions of our leaders. Like in every system: a car, a machine, a beehive, the human body or a wolf pack, every member or component has a role to play for the overall success of the system Not every wolf gets to be alpha. Not every ...

Being a Public Lecture Delivered by Nweke, Emmanuel Onyekachi (PhD, Fcai, Acipm/Acia/Mnim) on the Occasion of End of Year Praise by Omuma Youths for Christ,  held on 28th December, 2021 in the ACI Event Centre, Eberi, Omuma, LGA,  Rivers State.   Protocol Preamble • It is with a heart of excitement that I appreciate the organizers of this great event for inviting me. The future of Omuma is great counting from the calibre of youths we have. Before delving into the main matter of the day, I will like us, in the spirit of praise to the Almighty God (which your organization is known for) take this song, ‘what shall I render unto Jehovah for what  He has done so very much for me (2x).  Yes indeed  there is a lot to thank God for particularly concerning Omuma our land which has just clocked 25 years of creation.   Introduction • Change they say, is constant.  The narrative of Omuma is a very interesting one.  It is a narrative of a people of great...

Some years ago I attended an interview for a scholarship where I met a pretty Etche sister. At the interview, we were given forms to fill where we asked to state our LGAs, ethnicity and spoken languages. This pretty sister walk up to me and asked, “Etche speaks Ibo language abi?”

Nigeria is a country that abounds with so many talents. Ironically, we also double as a people who don't value talents.

The issue of depression in the society is no longer news. At least everyone of us has had our moments of depression at least once in our lives. 

Being a Paper Presented by Nweke Emmanuel Onyekachi (ACIPMN/ACIA/MNI/MABEN/MABS) on the Occasion of Oganihi Omuma Forum (OOF) End of Year Get-together held at the ACI Centre, Eberi, on the 25th Day of December, 2019.

If you feel lost, or as though you don’t know where you want your life to go next, or worse, fear that everything you have built could come crashing down, you don’t need more inspiration. 

Did you know that public speaking is one of the biggest fears in the world today? The next greatest fear is death! 

INTRODUCTION : Before demystifying the matter at hand, it is important to delve into it anthropologically .

“ Your bed should be for rest and sex only”.  - Gabrielle Gray   If you often feel rushed, tired and anxious, you probably look forward to relaxing in bed at the end of a long day.

It can be difficult to tolerate other people's opinions, especially about sensitive subjects you have strong feelings about. However, everyone has to deal with people they disagree with at times.

Before proceeding to read this final episode, make sure you've gone through Episodes 1 and 2. Read: Changing from introvert to extrovert. Episode 1 Read: Changing from introvert to extrovert. Episode 2 Now let's get into the last installment . METHOD THREE  Handling Interpersonal Relationships. Check in with others . Introverts can sometimes forget that not everyone feels “recharged” from being alone. Remember to check in with friends and loved ones, even if just to say “hello.” Being the person to initiate that contact is a more extroverted trait, but it’s not so hard to do with a little practice. • Social media can be a good way to practice making the first move in your relationships. Send a friend a friendly post. Post a funny picture on your sibling’s Facebook wall. Initiating contact with other people, even in small ways, will help you embrace your extroverted side. Set guidelines for social interaction. • If you’re in a relationshi...

Having recognized the traits of Introversion and Extroversion (METHOD ONE) from the first episode, we will now look at the practical steps to discovering the more extrovert or less introvert versions of ourselves.

Like many other things in life, your personality is complex and falls along on a continuum.

BY INNOCENT CHIKADIBIA Emancipation is the act of setting somebody or a group of people free from slavery, subjugation and any form of undemocratic influences in a democratic setting like Nigeria.

By INNOCENT CHIKADIBIA Fraud in this context is the inability to approach what has been said by the promisor in a way that would convince the promisee even though the promise is not fulfilled 100℅ but a remarkable and obvious attempts made to a reasonable level in pursuit of the fulfilment of the subject matter (promises).

There will always be something to worry about, all the time. Truly, life is full of ups and downs, unexpected disappointments and tragedies, and honestly a lot of things that just refuse to go according to our optimistic plans.

For once in her long history Nigeria is so fortunate to have a president at this time who abhors corruption. He hates corruption so much that he chose to align with men of impeccable integrity to form a mega-political party.

“Within you there is a stillness and a sanctuary to which you can retreat at anytime and be yourself.” ~Hermann Hesse. The beauty of silence is that it simply “is”. There is nothing artificial or engineered about it. Silence offers an opening that cannot be immediately defined -- an opportunity to take the time to unearth the mysteries and lessons that exist within.